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Thursday, March 15, 2007

One should reflect n not regret 12:04:00 PM

Results released yesterdae. Kinda shocked to received a msg frm NP early in the morning! I tot it was supposed to be released after 1500hrs!? Anyway checked my results and was contented with it. That's all!

I knew that it would happened everytime whenever the results released. Many would try to guess and wonder wat the others are scoring instead of focusing and reflecting on their own score. Somehow I feel that it isn't the score that is important but I can't decieved myself either that it is the score that determined how good your performance is. Yes, indeed it is true that we 're in the 'paperchase' era so we might not WANT TO be so grade-concious but we HAVE TO be one. No choice, many are judging based on your performance and there goes to say it the GRADE! the SCORE! the G.P.A! the CREDIT!

However it's true that the SCORE is important BUT... one should reflect n not regret. Isn't it true? Yes, definitely we'll regret for not scoring well, for not scoring even better? But if it's juz all abt regretting then forget it, you'll never make it the next time. It'll still be the same, which mean that you'll repeat ur mistake again and again and u'll still be in the position of regretting and the cycle goes on and on. Instead of staying in that position, why not jump out of that position and start to reflect on ur performance?

Comparing and degrading yourself isn't the right way to go. So wat if u've scored better than I do? So wat if u've a B+ while I'm only a B? Does that matter? It doesn't meant that u're smarter than me and I've to look up to u as a GENIUS? Hello!? You might be able to K.O everyone in your cohort but you'll never be able to K.O everyone in the world? Similarly, u might have lose to a few individuals but that doesn't mean u've lose to everyone in the whole world? It doesn't mean that u've to stop there and start to degrade urself and ur ability? No one has the extraordinary abilities since young, so what if they have it? If they would to sit around and think that they are the best they would end up with NOTHING!

Only if we reflect on our failure and setbacks would one be able to improve and do better.
Think about it! :)